Dear Sue James,
I am 26, and I have never gone beyond a second date with any guy.
Since I started dating at age 19, I have had a total of 3 boyfriends.
Not too long ago, I went to a party with a room full of eligible men. I was dressed in my very best with just a hint of makeup on, and not one guy looked at me twice.
I know I'm not ugly -- I'm funny, smart, slightly odd and I love sports, especially football; but no matter what sort of smile I throw at a man or any kind of conversation I happen to start, I just cannot seem to have any man take much of an interest in me.
I know this sounds pathetic. Should I continue on the path I've been on for more than seven years?
I dress in sensible but flattering clothes and wear just the right amount of makeup.
I have been using my spare time to try to attract different men in different places, including church. Should I just say to heck with it and focus all of my energy on making a real career for myself?
And before you answer, know that I'd rather not use online dating sites to find a man since you never know what sort of person you're likely to meet.
-Anon
Dear Anon,
You have come to the right place and by the sounds of you, you tick plenty of boxes for plenty of guys.
However, I think the reason you are not having much success is because your approach sounds frenzied and a little desperate. This could come across as pushy and may put men off.
The best way to attract people to you is to be the best version of yourself possible. Be quirky, be confident, be competent and cool. Work on your friendships -- with women and men and you can't go wrong.
I am confident that Sue James Introductions will help you with these confidence issues and teach you the skills required to get the best out of your relationships/dates.
Remember, Sue James Introductions is unlike online dating agencies. We don't match you up and throw you to the lions. We can offer you tips and advice and make dating a comfortable and enjoyable experience.
Love Sue James
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