Dear Sue James
I am in love with my best friend whom I have known most of my life.
He is at University in Wales and I dont get to see him that often, but now we are text messaging each other and they are getting rather intimate! He is coming home soon and we are going out ( as friends ). What should I do? Should I just tell him or should I see what happens?
Please Help!
Anon,
Well Anon,
Crushes on best friends are often fraught with difficulties, and normally end in woe, especially if the crush/affection/lust/love feelings are very strong.
Don't mistake the closeness of best friendship for the closeness of true love, 'going out' to him might just mean nipping to the cafe for a quick coffee. Not being wined and dined etc.
Also, you could terrify him with your confession of undying love. I suggest you continue seeing one another as friends and just let nature take its course. Any shock revelations could ruin your chances with him and ruin the friendship.
What is meant to be will be. I hope this helps.
Love Sue James x
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